Divorced spouses are not eligible for Aid & Attendance. Here’s why.
You may have spent years caring for a veteran. But if you were divorced at the time of their passing, the VA does not consider you a surviving spouse—and you’re not eligible for VA Aid &
Attendance benefits.
That can be a devastating surprise, especially for spouses who divorced due to medical hardship, financial strain, or even at a doctor’s recommendation—but later reconciled. Without remarriage, there’s no legal path to claim these benefits.
At McIntyre Elder Law, we’ve seen this happen—and it’s heartbreaking.
If you’re currently caring for a veteran or thinking about your long-term care needs, don’t wait. We can help you understand what’s available and how your relationship status, income, and care needs affect your eligibility. Knowledge today can protect your finances tomorrow.
